If a big seed is found in some high quality bud can u grow it.is the seed most likely a male or female

Well in humanity the female mature faster than a male does… thing is the males just flower that’s all they do the female gets knocked up in way way meaning they bud the weed…this is also off experience with growing I did what I said planted the females cracked open seed in one pot the still closed seed in another the female cracked open grow weed while the other grew flowers it’s said u can boil the male flowers and get drunk off them I never tried it…In addition that was my first successful yield